D initial phase of romantic love is fueled by a mixture of sexual attraction and gratification, reduced feelings of lonlines, uncertainty about the security of developing attachment and excitement due to exploration of the novelty of anoda human being. With time, sexual attraction wanes, attachment anxiet either fades or leads to conflict or withdrawal; novelty gets replaced with familiarity & lovers find themselves securly attached and caring deeply about each other or experiencing some form of distress- boredom, disappointment, loneliness, hostility and yearning for a more satisfying relationship.
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When two lovers get beyond being pre-occupied with novelty,
unpredictability & urgent sexual attraction, they more readily detect deficiencies in each oda'z behaviours
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When u're in love, u seem to go blind and deaf, or both-or you choose to coz wen u're init, its too hard to see.
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